10 reasons to spice up your life as a couple

When you live with someone for a long time, the attraction can fade and the daily grind invites itself into couple relationships. It can then be useful to reboost your intimate life to rediscover the joys of the beginnings. Here are 10 tips for that.

10 ways to spice up your life as a couple
10 ways to spice up your life as a couple

feel sexy

It is above all important not to consider your life as a couple as something earned. At the beginning of your relationship, did you get ready before meeting your partner? And why not continue? It's important to show him that you still want to please him. Adopt a pretty body lingerieEg.

Putting on a beautiful dress with a deep neckline and close to the body can also be a great idea to awaken your partner's senses (don't forget the invisible bra for a flawless look).

Do not hesitate to show yourself

You don't have a very sexy outfit? No worries, there is also another very simple solution: sleep naked. It is indeed an excellent solution to change the habits of fluffy pajamas and to give naughty ideas to your playmate.

Accessories ? And why not ?

You have no doubt heard about it, sex toys have been enjoying phenomenal success lately. But did you know that they can also be used during a two-way relationship (and not just solo)?

Adopt, for example, an accessory vibrating. Entrust it to your “collaborator” and have fun. The sex toy is a friend of the sexual relationship for two and will make you discover new things. He will also be there to allow you to get to know the other's body better and why not his desires?

Go somewhere else

Obviously, when we say leave, it does not mean leaving our companion. But go sleep somewhere else. You can thus go to the other side of the world or simply to the other end of the street, the main thing is to change the scenery. You will see that it will breathe new life into your relationship. Your habits will be turned upside down and you will be more open to sensations during this new experience.

A first date

This is of course an image since you have been living with your partner for a long time already. But meeting him unexpectedly in a place he doesn't know will surprise him and make him feel that you think of him as something other than the person you live with on a daily basis.
Invite him to a restaurant before spending the night in a hotel. Organize a visit to a museum to share something new. It's up to you to find what will surprise him.

Food, a help to spice up your relationships

We don't always think about it, but food is a very sensual element that can be invited to spice up your relationship. Invite whipped cream, for example, to cover your partner's body and have fun! You will see that a few small strawberries nibbled together can totally change your relationship! Do you remember the mythical scene from the movie 9 1/2 weeks? So you see what we are talking about.

Getting started with massage

Massage can also be a good idea to reboost your relationship. You then have a choice. You can make an appointment with your partner in a specialized establishment. Many now offer couple massages. You will then share this moment of relaxation and you will feel good together.
You can also learn to massage your partner. You will see that massage is ideal for disconnecting. It sensualizes relationships. You can add scented oils for even more sexiness.

Read together

Yes, yes, you read that right! Reading can be an amazing time to stimulate your senses. Provided, of course, that you choose the right book. Then opt for erotic literature. It's ideal for giving lots of new naughty ideas and awakening your libido. You will see that you will have the choice and will be able to vary the pleasures to have fun at best.

Have fun when bathing or showering

Do you want to spice up your relationship but don't know what to do? We have one more tip for you: share your bath or shower with your partner. It's a special moment that you can prepare in advance (create a sensual atmosphere with candles, for example) or not (invite yourself into his shower). But in any case, your partner will be very pleasantly surprised and can give free rein to his imagination.

Offer you naughty moments

Last tip to energize your life as a couple: the quickie. Several advantages to this. First of all, it takes little time and can easily fit into a busy day. It's also a way to have fun without going through long, sometimes very boring foreplay.
These few seconds of happiness are an excellent way to give you pleasure and boost your intimate relationship as best as possible without complicating your life.

Patrice Groult
I am Patrice Groult, journalist and creator of the 10-raisons.fr website. I have a long experience of the written press and the radio. I got into journalism in 2004 while living in New York. I have worked for several French media, notably Le Figaro and France Inter. In 2016, I decided to create my own website, 10-raisons.fr. The formula was innovative: articles in the form of “10 reasons for...”. I wanted to offer relevant and original content, which allows readers to better understand the world around them. Since then, 10-raisons.fr has been a great success. The site now has more than 3 million visitors per month, and its articles are shared by thousands of people on social networks. I strive to offer quality content and to demonstrate objectivity and impartiality in the treatment of the topics covered.